The Lasting Impact of How We Make Others Feel

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ― Maya Angelou

The quote “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel” by Maya Angelou speaks to the power of emotion and the lasting impact that our words and actions can have on others.

At the heart of this quote is the idea that how we make others feel is often more important than what we say or do. Whether we are interacting with friends, family, colleagues, or strangers, the way we make them feel can have a lasting impact on our relationships and on their overall well-being.

So, how can we use this insight to improve our interactions with others? Here are a few suggestions:

• Be mindful of your words: Choose your words carefully, and try to speak with kindness and empathy. Avoid using harsh or hurtful language, and try to communicate in a way that is respectful and understanding.
• Pay attention to body language: Our nonverbal cues, such as our facial expressions and gestures, can often convey more than our words. Pay attention to your body language, and try to use it to convey positive emotions and openness.
• Practice active listening: When others are speaking, give them your full attention and try to truly understand their perspective. This can help to foster a sense of connection and build trust in your relationships.

By following these tips, we can work to create positive, meaningful interactions with others and leave a lasting impact through the way we make them feel.

If you’d like to learn more about the lasting impact of how we make others feel, I recommend the book “Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life” by Marshall B. Rosenberg. This book provides a powerful framework for understanding and practicing compassionate communication, which is all about focusing on the needs and feelings of ourselves and others. Through practical exercises and examples, Rosenberg shows how we can use this approach to build stronger, more meaningful connections with others, and to resolve conflicts in a peaceful and constructive way. Whether you’re looking to improve your relationships with loved ones, colleagues, or even strangers, this book is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to make a positive impact through their words and actions.

We’d love to hear your thoughts on the lasting impact of how we make others feel! Do you agree with the idea that our words and actions have the power to shape the way others feel? How have you seen this play out in your own life, or in the lives of those around you? Do you have any strategies for using your words and actions to create positive, meaningful connections with others? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! We’re always eager to hear from our readers and learn from their insights and experiences.